Take all the myths that you have heard about men and sex and put them in a basket. You are about to get some real talk! Ever wanted the endless lines of chics that can’t wait to get laid by you? The looks that you get when you meet her the next time and you can tell she can’t wait to hear from you? How about having an endless list of booty calls that do not expect any financial maintenance or commitment from you just the sex? Better yet, a marriage that will never go sour? Chances are your answer to all of these questions is a yes. And the trick to getting all that and more solely lies on you being a pro in bed. Let’s get you started on how you can get there.
Her Breasts are NOT a Bull’s Eye
This is where most men will go wrong. Even though a lady’s breasts are usually one of the go to moves in the sack, there is more to her than just that. You appreciate the fact that they can get her moaning and groaning but truth be told, you have to warm up to the occasion. Drum up the beat and slowly bring up the tempo. By the time you get to this part, she will be rearing to go. Remember that the breast is not only composed of the nipple and includes the top (which actually happens to be the most sensitive) and the sides. Also, when you get here, be sure to use your entire arsenal. You can touch, nibble, and suck anything that seems to be giving positive results but remember, if you are there all the time you will lose your edge. Know how to use other hot spots.
Understand the Art of Oral Sex
Time and time again, it has been said that a man has higher chances of making a girl cum through oral sex. This means that you do not really have to rely on this penis enhancement pills and lotions. Your fingers and tongue can do the work for you just fine. Keep in mind that oral sex is an art. You will improve as you go along.
While most guys go straight for the penetration, there is more that you can do to raise the temperature and allow yourself better chances of making a girl cum. Start by playing with her out labia (Labia Majora) this will definitely get the juices going. You have to be tender and tease. You should notice her legs start to move around. This is a great time for you to also play with her thighs since they are usually a great trigger.
Move on to the clit. While fingering a girl, this is what seems to be the most result oriented. Keeping in mind that there are two female orgasms (that’s just unfair for the men right? Two!) The clitoral and the vaginal orgasms. By stimulating the clit, you can trigger the former. Start by making big circles that are gentle and you will notice that it starts to grow.
Now you get to the actual how to masturbate a girl through fingering. Note that this is not just about inserting your fingers in there and thrusting. At least if you do not want to look amateurish. You want to make sure that you hit the target which in this case is the G-spot. It is about two inches in and on the roof of the vagina. You should feel sort of a rough area. That is what you ought to be working on. Remember it takes time so do not be in a rush and be sensual and complement her. She needs to be comfortable if she is going to get to the big “O”.
This should be every guys go to plan. While it might not give you a lot of pleasure, it will definitely make you a god in bed and the swarms of women will keep coming. The tongue is like a grail when it comes to sex. Like the penis, it is all muscle and can do a lot of lifting. However, it only gets you results if you know the best ways to eat a girl’s pussy out.
After playing with her inner thighs, going in slowly and tease her vagina by slightly kissing it, gently rubbing your tongue on its lips and you should hear trickles coming down.This is what you call masturbating a girl. Slowly build momentum until you are sucking on the clit and the reaction at this point is definitely worth the trouble. To make sure you are doing the right thing, always use her body as a map. See what she reacts to best and keep going at it.
Be a Gentleman
As much as many women will say they like rough sex, the only thing that they love better than that is being treated well. The last thing you want is to be the guy who women want to have sex with but not get intimate. It takes the fun out of everything. Learn to complement her. Make her feel sexy and above all, treat her like a woman.
Remember that being great in bed is not about making feel good but making the lady feel out of this world. Truth be told, if you make her scream, she definitely will return the favor and this is when it is going to even better for you.